Different Countries, Different Beauty Standards
Rhythm & Roam with Benefsheh, Paul, & TreciaMay 22, 2024
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Different Countries, Different Beauty Standards

Benef, Paul, and Trecia consider how beauty standards change in different countries and the effects on them as American travelers. Paul interviews La’Nita, who expresses her experiences as a woman of color visiting Europe and navigating the designer stores.

[00:00:00] and welcome back to another edition of Rhythm and Roam. I'm your host, Paul, and I'm with my two

[00:00:16] co-hosts, the Nef and Trish, how's it going out there? So as you guys already know, the little

[00:00:22] disclaimer, you know, where this is the podcast where we start to discuss our travel

[00:00:29] adventures and explore and cultural differences in every single thing that's in between.

[00:00:37] So today, episode is a quite interesting one. We're talking about different countries

[00:00:43] and different beauty standards. I know that's a weird mouthful, but I think this is going

[00:00:51] to be something that a lot of folks listening is going to be able to relate to probably

[00:00:58] as stuff like that. So let's just kick it off. What are we going to do?

[00:01:03] Why don't you tell us why you came up, how you even came up with this topic? Because I'm not,

[00:01:07] I don't know if you're traveling to different countries and noticing the beauty standards

[00:01:11] or being treated differently as a man. I was sad to see you. So this is why, and I'm glad

[00:01:18] you threw it back to me because I didn't want to make it seem like I was trying to make it,

[00:01:21] oh, it's only women and it's not men or whatever. The topic actually did not come to me specifically,

[00:01:29] like I didn't think of it at first, but a good friend of mine who I went to grad school with

[00:01:34] Lena, who is also American. I had the pleasure of interviewing her to as well as she popped

[00:01:41] this into my head because she said that this was something that interests her and was also concerning

[00:01:47] of the fact that the beauty standard, when I say beauty standard, we're talking about

[00:01:55] when it comes to sometimes weight. Standards are not the same in specifically Europe,

[00:02:03] then it is in America for example. And I can attest to that living here in Europe and just

[00:02:11] write out my door is the elevator and you guys know from traveling to Europe. How tiny,

[00:02:20] those elevators that are put into these very, very old art. They expect multiple people to,

[00:02:28] I'm like this elevator is for one person. Exactly. Maybe two, but damn you're in the fair.

[00:02:33] Yes, not including your suitcase. That's not including your suitcase. Seriously. I mean,

[00:02:38] I'm not like a large frame person, but I just don't want that people that close to me. I don't

[00:02:43] know that's like a space issue. It's all of that in a bag of chips. Everything you just said

[00:02:51] and people tend to not have a problem with it. And when Lena, we had a great conversation when

[00:03:00] she mentioned this and it proved my attention in my interest because I'm like yeah, that is

[00:03:06] breaking true. And it's not just elevators just an easier part of it. It's the same thing if you're

[00:03:12] going to a restaurant, for example. Like all the tables of so close and small chairs and

[00:03:20] they expect you to squeeze into a certain spot. And I'm always like, God dang, I'm skinny and

[00:03:27] I could barely fit in here. You know, kind of thing. So that was a concern of her and stuff like this

[00:03:33] to as well. And we talked extensively about this and some of the things that she had to deal with.

[00:03:44] I know I worked in the high-end fashion industry.

[00:03:52] What's up? Well, you know, I already knew because of my weight and my size and all of that.

[00:04:02] Even beyond that, even when I was smaller, just my body shapes into general because I am very

[00:04:08] five-metre and it doesn't matter what my weight or size is. I've always been curvy.

[00:04:16] This is the access to certain things that they just weren't there. And so, you know, whether it was

[00:04:23] the cut, you know, the and down or whatever, there just wasn't the availability of some

[00:04:30] of those things to me. So I already had it in my mind whether it's, you know, new to time or

[00:04:35] beauty or, you know, Chanel, whatever. I probably would not be able to wear it.

[00:04:42] What country is so just for a little bit of clarification? What country specifically are you

[00:04:50] talking about in the US and knowing that all of these brands were from France, you know,

[00:04:59] in general, it already had put in my mind that, okay, when I go there, I'm not going to be able to wear anything.

[00:05:10] And going there, I, when I went there, I had two bags, I stayed there for a week.

[00:05:17] What countries? I went to Belgium, France and, oh my gosh, it's failing me.

[00:05:27] Right to slava.

[00:05:30] Yeah, yeah.

[00:05:31] Yeah. So, um, yeah. So I kind of, you know, I packed because I knew, I was like, I'm not going to be able to buy

[00:05:39] clothes. I don't know whether it's, you know, like, let me make sure I bring some layered stuff and,

[00:05:46] you know, I just had a variety of things because I knew of, I felt that I wasn't going to be able

[00:05:52] to find anything, especially in Paris. I was going to fit mine, my body. Like, I knew that I wanted

[00:05:59] to get back and stuff like that. But like I said, just the clothes, even when I went into a

[00:06:05] little time store, I went straight to the handbags and the handbag, I didn't go to the

[00:06:12] things because again, even with the things. That's interesting. Yeah, very narrow. I've wifey,

[00:06:18] so I was like, that's not going to work for me. So I'll stick with the handbags and wallet

[00:06:24] and maybe through luggage. Was there any moment you felt uncomfortable period just because

[00:06:32] other than the highest. Of course, you know, traveling to Belgium and I can't always pronounce

[00:06:41] the name. Brought to slava, yeah. Yeah, traveling to both of those places, I was like,

[00:06:47] I'm probably going to be the only one person here. And so there's already this mindset

[00:06:55] like the shift in your mindset that you have to prepare for because if people who are in a

[00:07:01] situation where they've never left America for example, and it want to visit Europe, is there anything?

[00:07:08] I don't want to call it these adults. But is there anything that you want to get out there that

[00:07:14] you want people to know? And they feel like they're in the same situation that you felt,

[00:07:20] you know, where you think weight might have been an issue and you didn't want to buy anything

[00:07:24] because you don't want people to look at your certain way at high-end stores or wherever you

[00:07:28] want it to go kind of thing. What would you say or suggest or recommend to folks up there who's

[00:07:35] thinking that same way? Well, so you know I have this saying, do it a phrase. So even if you

[00:07:45] are... It's a nice of you. I like that. You're scared or whatever. Like you just do it anyway.

[00:07:52] You know, I'm a person that runs two-fear. I don't want a way from it. And so again, my advice is to

[00:08:01] do it a bit. Amen. So. How? What do you guys think? Well, I definitely

[00:08:15] can identify, certainly. Having challenged your vibe, I've certainly had those same types of

[00:08:25] quams and you know, but worrying about where I would fit. You know, and having gone several times

[00:08:31] on... I've lost quite a bit of weight recently and just personal choice of myself wanting to

[00:08:39] be to be smaller myself. But having been in a civil situation in this particular incident

[00:08:45] happened in England was it in England now that it was in France? No, it's actually in France.

[00:08:52] Yes, absolutely. I was... And I'm trying to remember what part where we were and I can't

[00:08:58] remember at this moment. I think we're painting it a restaurant. But I don't remember what part where

[00:09:03] we were but we had just finished eating or just touring somewhere and we went to eat lunch.

[00:09:07] And I remember going into a restaurant and then I you know, I think I had, you know, excuse myself

[00:09:13] in the table and now going into the restaurant. And when I opened up the restaurant, I could not

[00:09:22] believe. I thought I had made a mistake. I thought maybe I had gone into... It was a closet.

[00:09:26] Like a closet? Because initially, first of all, I could find the light switch because you know,

[00:09:34] so that's why I thought it was a closet because I already I could see that it was small.

[00:09:40] But when I opened it up, you know, I just happened to fumble through and I loved and no,

[00:09:46] it was the toilet was literally like right. I mean as soon as I stepped, it was right there,

[00:09:53] like right at the door. The sink was one of those design work kind of turned to the side. So

[00:10:01] you could, you know, they're trying to maximize space obviously. But it was right where the toilet was.

[00:10:06] So the distance was probably just, you know, just right. It was for those who were listening

[00:10:14] is right close. I mean it was right there. So there was really no difference. Maybe three inches.

[00:10:20] Maybe I don't know anything about distance. But let's just say with me being, you know,

[00:10:25] the bigger world that I am, it was close. And now remember, I have to get in. Okay,

[00:10:33] I'm going to sit out on this on the toilet and I'm going to close the door. So,

[00:10:39] and then I'm expected to pull my pants down. I'm supposed to do this in like an airline lab.

[00:10:45] Yeah, it's definitely the same in that. And so there's like two different things that we're

[00:10:50] discussing. I think is is the just the issue of personal space that is different in Europe and in Asia

[00:10:56] than it is in America where everything is bigger and we just have a lot of space to just

[00:11:01] while we get out. Yeah, things wire things a lot bigger is another question on that.

[00:11:06] We actually just have more space. Wait, wait, do you have more space?

[00:11:10] There's more space in other countries too as well. You know what I mean? Okay, Russia, China,

[00:11:15] yeah. Canada, Canada. Yeah, yeah, it was a bigger Canada. Yeah, I agree. But also, but also,

[00:11:22] I mean, honestly, there's so reason to make these spaces that small though, right? And so why not

[00:11:29] come up with these new architectural ways and start combating that now? I guess, you know,

[00:11:34] here's my question. It's like people go to France and they're going to see these like ancient

[00:11:40] French things, right? Yes. I don't know that their necessarily building things or re-furbishing

[00:11:47] things to attract tourists. It's not like Dubai where they are building things to attract

[00:11:53] Westerners to go. So they have no that people are going to come up with. There's only

[00:11:57] going to be so big. People will go there for that. I mean, but like in Asia, the people are just

[00:12:05] smaller. So are they making clothes for tourists or they making clothes for Japanese people or

[00:12:11] Koreans? Japanese Japanese Japanese. Yeah, I can't like in Japan it was really hard to find stuff

[00:12:17] that fit because my arms and legs were longer. And I just have broader shoulders, but in Korea,

[00:12:23] the Koreans are bigger. And so I was able to find clothes that fit, but I still struck out on shoes.

[00:12:31] Well, I can't remember if you answered your question, do a bit of day specifically Japan

[00:12:39] and probably other countries who as well don't look at it for tourism. France. And the

[00:12:44] cause I'm so excited. Yeah, France doesn't look at it as tourists. Other European countries,

[00:12:50] I would say Germany because they want the tourism and stuff like they would probably cater to

[00:12:59] probably bigger people and Scandinavian Stockholm, people are very tall and never-lands.

[00:13:07] Everyone is saying that these places are to visit. So you come and visit, you do even

[00:13:12] you fit, you're comfortable for a bit and you go home. So I give you another example.

[00:13:16] I'll give you another example. In the Netherlands, for example, Amsterdam, the Dutch are extremely

[00:13:23] tall people. For some reason their apartments are not tall enough for them. Like, I've been

[00:13:30] the people's apartment who this dude is like- And the stairs are like so narrow. Yeah. And

[00:13:37] the guy is like six foot five and he's hunched over to try to get into it. You know, the buildings are

[00:13:43] old there too as well. Okay. Yeah. And there's a lot of them there. And they always been that tall

[00:13:52] or is it like because of like- I think Dutch people have always been a very nice way back when.

[00:13:56] It's like, bike in time? Maybe they weren't. Yeah. Yeah. But that's it. So he's not a water

[00:14:03] but they have a lot of water. It is known how to check out. No, in Amsterdam, there's not much

[00:14:08] modern. It's just like- Well that an Amsterdam proper. No. I want to, I'm only specifically

[00:14:14] was talking more about Amsterdam because it's one of their highest travel destination places

[00:14:21] and the buildings are old and I don't have to answer also the next question. I don't know

[00:14:27] when Dutch became tall but they're freaking tall. And I can tell you the homes are so old that

[00:14:35] doesn't work well. Well, I mean the other thing too is like if I'm traveling to, you know,

[00:14:43] India, Japan, you know, Germany. Like I'm not trying to fit in with their beauty standards because

[00:14:48] I'm American. I could give two folks about what they think is pretty over there. Can you to find

[00:14:52] a little bit on the beauty standard part because I think it's a little generic. Like when you

[00:14:57] say beauty standard, what are you specifically talking about? So it's basically like what that

[00:15:03] society with that culture perceives as beautiful for men and for them. And it is different depending

[00:15:09] on what country you're in obviously. It's a weight that includes beauty things. Yeah. So

[00:15:16] beauty is to get a very high like the the the the Korean beauty standard for a woman and for a

[00:15:22] man. It's basically what you see with the K-pop stars. Like if you don't fit that standard then

[00:15:28] you're not going to make it as a K-pop and it's hard to like. So looking like a doll baby.

[00:15:33] K-o. Sorry. And and I remember actually one of my roommates at West Point

[00:15:41] is was is Korean and she said I I forget what we had been talking about but like it was a flight

[00:15:47] attendant for Korean air or one of the Korean airlines and she was like oh well if she's the flight

[00:15:52] attendant you know she's beautiful because like you can't be a flight attendant unless you're beautiful

[00:15:58] in Korea. And the definition of beauty is again. Is there standard whatever it is? And so yeah

[00:16:05] we don't have that in America because that would be discrimination. We did. We did. Well we did.

[00:16:12] We absolutely do you understand me some of those where it was like you said is the flight attendant. Yes.

[00:16:17] Yeah you had to be single. Oh yes. I think I'm gonna go off the coffin and again say

[00:16:26] we are kind of in our American cultural thinking saying absolutely. Please don't yell at me on this.

[00:16:34] But because we're big people people need to cater to us. I feel like that's what we're saying

[00:16:41] where we go anywhere. I mean I think that we think that anyway we go we go with that mentality a

[00:16:48] lot initially and then initially. Yeah you have a good way. You have silly do because we're like why

[00:16:54] is everything so goddamn small? I do it all the time and I live here. I do it all the time

[00:17:01] and I live here every day I get to about the elevator. We don't want to be that close to people like

[00:17:08] that's so comfortable. Yeah. I mean it's just a elbow room man too. But why do they need to

[00:17:16] change their standard because of us? Because that's what we're used to more fucking room. That's

[00:17:21] just it. We're just used to more okay Mrs. Eric and I'm American. No it is true. I'm not right. I mean

[00:17:30] oh I bet you's difficult for them how to handle like for example Trisha your hair or

[00:17:36] another person of color hair. It wouldn't be because I know I would look for people that had

[00:17:41] had had training abroad like in London or you know I've been somewhere else not just

[00:17:48] it was definitely tough for a lot of and this was something Leninga had also mentioned to

[00:17:54] as well which I wanted to get to was hair you know and I saw that struggle with you know

[00:18:03] like women for example in Korea. Hell I struggled but not as much as they did because at the time

[00:18:11] I did have hair and I had a feed and I said it's tough but the good thing with me is that there was

[00:18:18] a lot of Americans knew how to do a black dress. However but for that woman that need you know

[00:18:25] whatever products you guys put in your hair and stuff like this of color it was so cool. I remember

[00:18:32] it's like just trying to get a decent blowout I went to it and it was in Nevada salon in a mall so

[00:18:37] I thought this would be perfect but like the minute she bought out the blow dryer and started just like

[00:18:43] doing all this and I was like it was gonna be like a horse I need like a bottle of cereal

[00:18:55] I was like my eyes were like yeah why don't you try it?

[00:19:02] Why when when we travel you'll see and that's you know that's kind of the other thing you know

[00:19:09] when you see a you know American or black woman travel you will see a protective hairstyle because

[00:19:19] the weather you know first of all you know it was easy to handle but it's more definitely it's more easier

[00:19:25] to handle will have a protective hairstyle you'll see brand you'll see locks you'll see something you'll

[00:19:30] you'll see cornrows you'll see them because we don't have to worry about you know we don't

[00:19:34] have to worry about our hair so that's kind of the thing spot on on on that and another another

[00:19:43] thing that is a note that interests me too is because I didn't even think about this is you know

[00:19:52] going to European high-end design stuff you know that was something also

[00:19:57] I didn't even think about this you know maybe because I'm a man but you know

[00:20:05] those high-end stores she felt that there was a little needed that is that there was no

[00:20:11] reason for her to go there because they weren't gonna have her size for example

[00:20:16] they are entering to the the model and why yeah we know that we know that we know that

[00:20:23] from America but we don't know why we don't know why we do know why we do know why

[00:20:34] it's annoying because of the fact that it's on fake it's on fake

[00:20:39] they don't see us in their clothes they don't see us as a vision in their clothes

[00:20:44] they have a glass of fire the lunch was unless yes they do not do they do not

[00:20:50] their clothes do not fit the lunch was women and traditionally black women have hips they have abs

[00:20:57] they have titties they have curves so therefore we do not fit into their

[00:21:03] genre but let me just be controversial for a second a lot of people who didn't have

[00:21:09] ass and hips and all that are buying them now Kim Kardashian um so you would think that they will

[00:21:17] start to be making more career they don't have to know one I don't know I feel like those are

[00:21:23] things that mentality is so entrenched at the time when they told we've been on a change

[00:21:31] old could you then it's like half that shit they're wearing is like looks ridiculous and isn't

[00:21:36] you would think but here's the other point of that though it also has to do with um

[00:21:42] pedigree right it has to do with those who can't afford it so if they were to if they were to change

[00:21:48] the mentality or to change the mind the the mind and they would have to let they've had to be

[00:21:52] inclusive of all and inclusive means letting all in so there still has to be some type of

[00:21:58] its exclus exclusivity to that right there has to still be some type of um misty to it so

[00:22:06] instead of them having to change you have to change to be able to fit into it but I think that

[00:22:12] I think that they are adjusting meaning because I just mentioned earlier Louis Vuitton for example

[00:22:19] or as the French say we don't know we don't we don't so um they changing because

[00:22:27] what's his name for Rale Williams is the artistic director or whatever it is

[00:22:33] so he has the mindset that they need to make stuff now that are for uh women with curvy figure

[00:22:42] not necessarily black women but just women with curvy figures and they have been bringing out a lot

[00:22:48] more of those and they have been making baggier or bigger clothing but that's the style now so the

[00:22:54] question is when that style is over yeah does it go back to well I mean Trisha you said I mean what you said

[00:23:02] was very interesting about like you have to change and I think that is the problem with the beauty

[00:23:07] culture in general is that there's always something that we're trying to attain and reach but it

[00:23:13] means we have to change who we are and I feel like it's at least there's more um more emphasis

[00:23:22] more we see more diversity we see different types of women and we see that it's okay to be who

[00:23:28] you are there's a lot of um like advocacy for that but there's still that still that part there

[00:23:35] we're you know I feel like I feel like they have but I feel like they have catered a little bit

[00:23:41] in the change department not enough but I think that and we're just talking to hands of right now

[00:23:47] they have not even begun to they have not even begun to scratch the surface honestly um it's kind

[00:23:57] of interesting because I my scratch we kind of we kind of we kind of touched on this actually

[00:24:06] in my classes in my marketing class so we actually said a little bit about the dove campaign

[00:24:12] that they did yeah I remember about the you know the women campaign huge and I'm heading

[00:24:18] still to this day I mean that's you know one of their mission and they're saying good case he goes back

[00:24:23] yeah it's a very good case if you haven't looked I have all the links to that um you need

[00:24:27] and if we you know we can post it if we want to part of this so we can see this because I actually

[00:24:32] think it's quite poignant to look at that um the big thing is you know as women in general or you

[00:24:39] know people in general the way we look at ourselves the fact is we're not comfortable with who we are

[00:24:46] in general just how we even describe ourselves like if we that that was so powerful to me

[00:24:55] that commercial that they did of us describing ourselves to someone else and then because he's

[00:25:02] working on society tells us what is comfortable and what just no but just in general how we

[00:25:07] describe ourselves to others then have that person come back and describe us who different things

[00:25:15] we focus on all the negative and the other person focus on all the positive yes because they don't

[00:25:22] want to put you down that's well and I retot to focus on the negative or we taught to be humble to the

[00:25:27] point that we're detrimental to ourselves and both and you know and then and our we are we the

[00:25:36] you know are we taught to you know to our own horn when no one else does and you know all those

[00:25:42] wonderful things that we're supposed to do so how are we supposed to be able to advocate for ourselves

[00:25:47] you know I don't know I think that's what I'm saying I think we are I think we are making small

[00:25:56] adjustments I mean like the adjustment the adjustment like well no no no the reason why say that

[00:26:02] it because remember back in the 90s early 2000s or even later we didn't have plus size models

[00:26:09] we didn't have people spokespeople to wear stuff or for the woman that look like other

[00:26:18] than a skinny toothpick you know kind of thing so I'm just trying to be fair to say there have been

[00:26:26] is just that it's just that they're not catering to the speed that we want because and I know

[00:26:37] at sorry my French peeps the French people could be just feeling very direct and cold and honest

[00:26:43] and there's nothing wrong with that it's just that in the direct honesty it's more of it's your fault

[00:26:50] you figure out how to you know get to the where you need to be to do this or leave

[00:26:56] and go somewhere else that's the mentality how it is I'm not saying that they say that I'm just

[00:27:01] saying that is what it seems the mentality is and everybody seems to be okay and fine with that

[00:27:07] so I think this brings it back to Linida's point you know on the fact that you know they're not

[00:27:16] they your is not going to change how they do business and stuff like this because of in their mind

[00:27:22] it worked and it's been working and people are still buying our shit so take it or leave it

[00:27:28] right exactly yeah so we're going to come back to you're we're still going to visit Ferris

[00:27:34] yeah yeah exactly that's my point you're not going to boycott Ferris

[00:27:39] right because they have a small elevator you're not going to boycott you know

[00:27:44] they're so good in that building I'm going to comment on it though David yeah I'm going to

[00:27:49] bitch about it all damn it I'm still kind of busy with my dancing as well yeah like look I'm

[00:27:55] I think this case by itself you know what's funny about it I'm just going to say that but now

[00:28:01] I'm going to send my suitcase up first damn it banana you came to visit me and you had a suitcase with you

[00:28:07] you saw those suitcase and me and you could not fit in that bag I had like an actual not a

[00:28:13] carry on size it would have been challenging that's my point I had people that came to visit me

[00:28:19] that had big old suitcases and we had to make several trips and I knew on the top floor we had

[00:28:24] to make several trips up and down and it was just annoying as hell and that's why warned people

[00:28:31] do not bring a big ass suitcase because you're going to drop off the metro and steps

[00:28:37] that was horrible yeah carrying it on the metro for yes it is a worse feeling everyone I see

[00:28:43] people with these big old suitcase I'm like you poor America well so like the camp has the

[00:28:48] it's like shipping company you know they'll ship your suitcase from your house to their airport

[00:28:53] because they don't want to deal with it yeah traveling I'm sure that they have stuff like that here

[00:28:57] and so on but it's just the fact that we have to do that and then they're making

[00:29:03] plain seats smaller now that is so the Japanese the Asian airlines there's less clearance

[00:29:10] from this one seat to the next because they're legs are shorter and so for people with legs I'm like

[00:29:15] why are my knees touching it like that never happened and I'm like right there and I'm like this

[00:29:19] is really uncomfortable and you have short of steamers and that's what I think what's one is

[00:29:26] so I know not to ride that one well there was Asian I think it was Asian Asian I've taken

[00:29:32] Asian I'm not right not one yeah yeah but like to pan airlines, Korean airlines I'm going United

[00:29:39] man yeah there's one you're getting smaller yeah well we're supposed to be able to take business

[00:29:49] class yeah it's all about that for the yeah for that far yeah okay so since we were talking

[00:29:57] about what hair products and skin products and things like that I do want to actually mention

[00:30:04] I know right I actually do want to mention a product that I have been using I want to bring that to

[00:30:12] your attention joy has a wonderful clinic there in Huntington and she has also started her

[00:30:19] skin care line and she was so gracious to send me some products to use and I have I have started

[00:30:25] using them I have actually now this is my third week using her product and I absolutely love it

[00:30:34] love it love it you're skin but as you can see yeah I just wanted to give a little plug for the joy

[00:30:41] joy boy wow yeah joy congrats to her so I have what's here is the essential bio botanical

[00:30:50] which is the face elixir and what's really neat about this is that this is actually the one ounce

[00:30:56] one fluid ounce that I put on and with the products all you have to do

[00:31:02] you just have to put I mean I'm talking like these smallest amount you wet you just wet your hand

[00:31:06] a little bit and you squirt a little bit of this and then I also use in conjunction with the

[00:31:12] serum and these are so well it's just from the very very nice yeah so good so I use this in

[00:31:19] a conjunction I do this at night both of those okay these at night and then just one at a day

[00:31:25] please you both just one time I do I do it at night both of the morning and night

[00:31:30] and it is it is just such a wonderful product so I just wanted to put it out there I also want to

[00:31:35] all enough to travel with so put put her link in the in the channel so that myself and

[00:31:42] the girls in love can enjoy this is also definitely okay and we'll start a QVC show next

[00:31:52] we need to our merch is next right okay yeah so this was the interesting great topic

[00:32:01] I thought we had some really good discussions and stuff like that so

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